Sour Grapes ◆ (Simple)

Instead of admitting defeat or feeling the pain of failure, the fox simply changes his perception of the goal to make it seem undesirable. Why We Do It

The "Sour Grapes" Effect: Why We Devalue What We Can't Have We’ve all been there: you apply for a "dream job," don't get the offer, and suddenly find yourself telling friends, "It probably would have been a toxic environment anyway." Or maybe you missed out on a limited-edition purchase and immediately decided the quality was likely subpar. Sour Grapes

Psychologists suggest this is a form of —the mental discomfort we feel when our desires don't match our reality. Sour Grapes - First Christian Church of Macon Instead of admitting defeat or feeling the pain