Mythologist | Author | Speaker | Illustrator

Move away from "sex as a chore" and toward "eroticism as a playground" for play, power, and exploration.

Perel discusses how the transition to "mother" and "father" often kills the role of "lover," as the selfless, nurturing energy of parenting is the antithesis of the selfish, primal energy of desire. The Resolution: Unlocking Intelligence

Ultimately, it’s a story about shifting from a model of (I need you to make me feel whole) to a model of want (I am whole, and I choose to desire you). AI responses may include mistakes. Learn more

Maintain interests and parts of your life that don't involve your partner.


Mating — In Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence